UPDATE: Mum of 3 Beaten & Stabbed in her Privates by Hubby on Christmas Day Writes from Hospital Bed
Yesterday, we reported how a woman, Ifeoma Ojiakor was allegedly abused by her husband, Victor Ojiakor, who beat her and stabbed her private part with a broken bottle on December 25th over alleged infidelity with his sales representative (read here).
On her hospital bed, the mother of three took to her Facebook wall to tell her sad story.
Read below…
”Saddest Christmas ever!!! Lying down in pains on my hospital bed I’m writing this with tears flowing my eyes. I could remember on d 24th night I made a post on Facebook sending out special greetings to everyone with d hope of having a merry Christmas with family,friends, and loved ones.
My husband by name Mr Victor ojiakor was always fond of hitting me at any slightest provocation and this issue has been resolved at so many police stations..whenever I report d beating escapades they would settle us at the police station and he would be asked to sign undertaking never to hit me anymore.He has even hit me at his village in d presence of his mother and father then reason being that he accused me of having an affair with his brother..His parents settled it after which he promised never to hit me again we reconciled mostly because of the kids ..after we returned back to Lagos he hit me again while I was pregnant for our third child that I began to bleed.i was rushed to the hospital by neighbours before my mum was called to d hospital …
The case was reported at the ministry of women affairs at Alausa Ikeja where he was invited and there promised never to repeat such again…now the height of this happened on d 25th of December he came back home at about 6.30pm and started accusing me of sleeping with his boy (a 16yr old boy…can you imagine?)he didn’t even wait for me to say a word he pounced on me and started beating me up with sticks,machete, bottle, e.t.c he said he was going to kill me and nothing would happen ..
He also stabbed the said boy with a machete don’t know d boy’s where about now…after beating me up for a sin I didn’t commit he locked me up and held me hostage seizing myphone
for 2 days. .nobody know what was happening to me I collapsed honestly I taught I would never survive this..I just kept pleading with him each passing day to please take me to the hospital before I die he refused telling me that he wanted to render me useless I just kept crying until I told him to take me to a pastor that was when he pushed me into his car n drove me to a place it was there that I pleaded with d prophetess to help me ..the prophetess on seeing my condition then advised him to take me to d hospital for immediate treatment that was how I was taken to d hospital on getting there I pleaded with d doctor to use her phone to call my sister who in turn informed my mum and they started rushing to the hospital.
At d hospital immediately he sensed that I might have reached my family he started dragging me,removed d drip from my hand I was crying out for help immediately my mum entered d hospital he ran away ..at the moment I am in my mums place with my 3 kids… 2 boys and a 3months old baby girl…d matter was charged to court and he was granted bail of 250,000naira…why I am left to wallow in pains for no offense I committed all because I married a heartless man and was enduring all these because of my kids and the society who kept telling me to forgive that he is my husband and he would change ….look at my life now!how I wish I left this marriage since!
Happy new year everyone!”
Photo credit: Ifeoma/Facebook
Lord have mercy. Where do all these beasts in human form come from? Why do women allow men treat them like animals? They keep saying they are staying for their kids and what the society will say. I say damn the society. Women please leave for your kid’s sake and save yourself the troubles and stay alive for them. I hope this will be a wake up call for her to leave this beast of a man for good.
Women will never hear that an abusive man can NEVER change. Thank God for her life though from the look of things if he begs and signs more undertakings she’ll go back to him because of the kids and what the society will say. God has given her another chance to use her brains and remain alive for those kids
wish you quick recovery
Sad
While other men are busy surprising and showering their wives with gifts… Cars, houses, jelweries of golds and diamonds, companies, great Love, a tour on a private jet. Others are there turning their wives to a punching bag, molesting, stabbing, down grading their safe esteem, even killing them and the government will let them go free for a certain amount, can this government use same money to buy Life??? #Society my foot #what people will say my foot. These are the same people that will come to ur funeral if u were pronounced dead eat ur food and won’t even ask of the welfare of ur kids oneday when u are gone. # a man that can cause this great harm to u, can never ever love u, he hates u with passion. Marriage is not all that brings joy and fulfilment in life. If it’s good for u thank God if it’s not move on.
Wish you better recovery
I Don’t Have Anythg To Say Than To Tell Her Nvr To Return To That Beast Or Else The Next Attack Will Be RIP,Hv Bn A Victim Bfr,So I Rlly Knw How Painful Domestic Violence Is,Being A Single Parent Doesn’t Mean U Are Usless Or Irrespnsble,It Depend On Hw U Carry Urslf In D Public,Is Better To Be Single And Be Alive Wt Ur Chdr No Enbl U Nurtore Them In Godly Way To Be Useful To Thmslvs,Fmly And The Society.I Advs Ths Kind Of So Called Beast Husbands Shd Be Gvn Life Imprisonment And Shd Be Tkg To Psychiatric Hospital For Life. I Wsh Her Quick Recvry And God Mercy. Peace.
They will wait until the bastard kills them before making a move.
Please dear, for the sake of ur kids, step out and stay alive for them cos staying back will mean signing ur exit out of this world.
quick recovery
Pls, go away from him, is it until he kill you ?