Dear MIMsters: How My Former Boss Evolved Into My Boyfriend and Now My Enemy
I am 26. I met this guy at my former place of work before we both changed jobs. He was my direct boss.
I liked him a lot and he showed me he liked me also but we never dated. After we both changed jobs, we decided to establish a relationship. I was so happy because I thought he was my last bus stop. Things went well until I decided to spend my first weekend at his place.
On Saturday of that weekend, he told me he was going for a wedding but wanted me to stay at home. I wasn’t too happy that I wasn’t going but there was nothing I could do. He promised not to stay long.
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At the end of the day, he got back at 11.30pm, drunk. I was surprised cause I didn’t even know he drinks, let alone getting drunk. In less than 10mins, he started throwing up and messed up everywhere. I was so pissed but because I loved him, I cleaned him up and cleaning up everywhere while he went to sleep, snoring.
After doing that, I went through his chat and even got more angry when I discovered that he was involved in another relationship. I then decided to change his dp to my picture just to make any other girl jealous. When he woke up, I reported myself so he won’t find out himself. Oh he flared up, became very aggressive and asked me to leave his house.
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I begged and begged and begged but to no avail. He even almost beat me up in the process. I cooked, he refused to eat. After a while, he asked me to get the food. I was happy thinking his temper had cooled. After our meal, I fell asleep, only to wake up at 7 p.m. I went to meet him and tried to apologise again.
But he insisted I must leave his house. I begged him to let me stay till morning because my house is quite far from his and he knows, but he said No. When I saw that my plea was not getting anywhere, I packed my things and left his house around 9 p.m.
Since I left, he has refused to pick my calls or reply my text messages and has blacklisted my number from calling him. I contacted one of his friends who told me that another woman whom he loves and he was going to marry dumped him after everything. They were planning a wedding and I didn’t know. He told me that since then, women now disgust him.
I love him so much but I honestly don’t know what to do at this point. Please I need your advice.
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love him evn aftr discovering he was using u???hmmm move on
Advice to do what?
Ha, na wa o.
God help us.
Na wa oh. So there are still girls acting like this? You waited until he threw you out. Now you know he was getting married before you ruined it and you still don’t know what to do? Instead of you to be happy you dodged a bullet and move on, you are sulking even after begging and begging smh.
Please kindly quit away from that man.
You don’t need advise girl.
You went too far by changing the picture on his dp. You should have waited till he is sober. I think you should forget about dating himagain and find a way of just maintaining good rapport
What did u hope to gain by using ur pic as his dp? U already knows he’s a cheat so it’s either u accept him d way he is n not get jealous or move on.
My dear, stop begging and stop sulking! Thank God you discovered on time. You should go on your knees and thank God for saving you from a lifetime of pain and tears cos a man like this will never appreciate you. You are never too old to find true love. We all deserve the best and shouldn’t settle for less!
Hmmm, there’s no advise here. Move on girl, he doesn’t want you.