Dear MIMsters: Since My Miscarriage, Things Have Not Been the Same

At five months, I had a miscarriage last year in November.

It was so painful and because the baby was fully formed, it was like giving birth. By God’s grace, I am three months pregnant again.

Since that scenario happened, my Veejay has become wide and I think this is why my man doesn’t enjoy me like we used to.

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When he goes away to work like for a month and comes back, we try to make out. He accuses me of cheating. And his penis would just go down and the reason he gives is because my vagina is now wide.

I explained to him why it’s like that and he seemed to understood me because he stopped complaining. Now the problem is he has completely changed in bed as he forces himself to have sex with me. His penis is always hanging down.

Am I the cause or could he be cheating? I suspect he has another woman because of the way he acts. He now passwords his phones and sometimes sleeps out without giving me a clear reason. His phone rings but he would dodge those calls in my presence, sometimes they call him late in the night.

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Another problem: is I don’t get wet enough, this is also not helping matters. Please tell me, what can I do to satisfy my Husband in bed. I feel very insecure.