Dear MIMsters: I Am in Love With My Boyfriend’s Cousin
I am in a state of dilemma as I have a crush on my boyfriend’s cousin who lives abroad where he went to study.
He always visits home when he is on holidays.
I first got to know both of them when we were in primary school. My brother was their friend. They always came to visit and we kind of formed both a bond.
My present boyfriend took the bull by the horn and asked me out. Even though my eyes were on his cousin, I said yes to him because his cousin never made a move. At this time, we were already in Secondary school when we started dating.
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The problem is that my feelings for his cousin never stopped even though my boyfriend loves and cares for me. Whenever my boyfriend’s cousin is visiting, I just cannot keep still. I would go out of my way to do extraordinary things just for him to notice me.
We both started chatting online and he would sometimes send sweet messages to me. I noticed when he’s in town, he loved hanging around me.
He would complement my figure, face, dress and everything I do. He sent me a necklace and earring when he came back. We both share a lot of things in common including our love for the same food and sport.
He is so cute and jokingly sometimes say I am his speck and he might want to marry a woman like me.
The problem is my boyfriend loves me very much. If I leave him he will be so frustrated and he doesn’t deserve this because he does not cheat on me, he is very respectful and provides my needs.
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I have a little bit of feelings for him but I love his cousin more. How do I handle this?
You better stick with your boyfriend or quit the family, don’t bring shame to yourself.
be honest with your boyfriend. take some time to to really figure out what you really want. Pray the Lord to give you aright. who tells u any of them is your future husband? Look well and be sure b4 u even leap at all.
you know very well your boyfriend will not hurt you meanwhile you are yet to know your boy-friend-cousin. I will suggest you look within you carefully before taking a decision that will hurt you later.
kill ur feelings for his cousin
Olojukokoro lol. Take your eyes off his cousin. If you are leaving your bf, make sure for someone else and not his cousin. It will crush him to know you left him for his cousin. Please don’t break the bond they have built over the years.
Don’t be selfish, u are only thinking of yourself without thinking of the implications of what on ur mind, to me dat wickedness, as far as ur bf is caring what else are you looking for, if u don’t love ur bf enuf just break up with him and look for anoda guy pls not his cousin, and if we shud look at it from the other way round, u might even disgrace urself,both cousins sleeping with you and ur bf cousin will just break up with you afterwards, dey will both laugh about it cos Dere are brothers, nothing can separate a brothers love not even you. So thick with ur bf and remove ur eyes from his cousin