Dear MIMsters: Am I Being Used Or Does He Love Me Differently?

Hello MIMsters, I need your opinion on my relationship with my boyfriend. Am I being used or does he love me differently?

I’ve been dating this guy for over a year now. He hardly calls to know how I’m faring. Anytime I bring up marriage, he says he isn’t sure because I am still in school and doesn’t know how I would contribute financially.

When I was in school, he asked me to come and see him, I went with my money and we had sex. He later had a fight with me because he thought I was cheating on him. When I left his house, and went back to school, he didn’t call to know how my journey was. I was even the one who called him.

When I ask him for little money in school, he finds a way for us to quarrel. When I traveled to another state for my IT and was there for 9 months, he called just once. I had to even call severally to complain before he made that one call.

The day I chatted with him, telling him that I was coming back, he replied immediately wanting to know when exactly I would be coming back. I came back, he called me two days after to come and see him. He wanted sex. I told him that I would be going to school the next day and I would be needing N4000 to add to the N19,000 I had so I could pay my school fees and some dues.

It’s been four days now, he hasn’t called to know if I traveled or how I am going to get the money to pay for my outstanding dues. What do you think of this relationship because I think that he is only using me.