Dear MIMsters: They Both Love Me. . . I Don’t Know Who to Choose

Hello MIMsters, I am confused and I need your honest opinion on who to choose between these two guys that want my hand in marriage.

The first guy is a banker who works around the clock. His work consumes his time and he is very bad at communication, but he says that he truly loves me.

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I also found out that his poor communication habit also affects his friendships with his mates. We broke up as a result of all this, but he has been begging me to give our relationship another chance; he is also asking me to be patient with his job.

Another concern is his religious sect; he grew up in the celestial church and I’m not a member of that church. My parents have no issue with this, but it’s an issue I think we should look at. I love him a lot and as much as I try to forget him, it has been difficult.

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Then there is the 40-year-old guy, who also wants to marry me. He is a teacher that still wants to pursue a career in law and school abroad. He loves me dearly and gives me all the attention I want.

Would you advise me to go with the banker guy who is 30 years old and has about 8 years of working experience or marry the 40-year-old teacher who gives me all the attention I crave for.

I need your honest advice please.