Tamar Braxton Breaks Silence on Divorce from Vincent Herbert
Tamar Braxton and her estranged husband Vincent Herbert have two very different views on the subject of reconciling … he wants to make peace and she wants to peace out. Tamar filed for divorce sometime in October of this year, amid allegations of domestic violence.
Sources close to Tamar say there’s absolutely no chance she’ll go back to Vince now that she’s filed divorce papers. Their 9-year marriage had been tumultuous for too long and she’s hellbent on ending it for good this time.
Braxton didnât give a reason for the divorce, but her mother claimed Herbert might kill Tamar if he didnât get help;
âI love Vince, but I donât want him to kill my child. As simple as that.”
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“He needs to keep his hands off of my child.
I think he needs to go and get counseling before someone gets killed.â
She’s surrounding herself with family and friends to keep her focused on both her career and her personal life.
She’s already moved out of the family home. Vince had been telling friends he’s willing to try counseling, but Tamar’s not receptive. As for their TV show, “Tamar & Vince”, she’s still doing the press tour but she’s doing it solo.
Tamar took to Instagram some hours ago – her first time time since she filed for divorce – to reveal what led to her decision to divorce her husband, Vince Herbert. She wrote;
Thank God this is HIS purpose..yes I just dropped #bluebirdofhappiness &Tamar &Vince is coming back on Thursday but on GOD this has NOTHING to do with ME or a JOB!!.here is the thing,& MY truth..you donât have to like me & while Iâm woke, I can see that most of you donât now..even when you did.?something has changed w/her..but itâs ok, because I donât..well, didnât like me either.
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I told myself I would do whatever it took to keep my family together, to see a smile on someone who has seen us smile on their face hoping we could offer them hope, faith, a Love & dignity that I? once possessed. But the truth is all of those things are NOT within the marriage of Tamar & Vince??â?? ..at least not anymore.married people who are reading will know what I mean.Sometimes we stayâmarriedâ for face value or to sayâwe did itâ??but the truth is..it couldnât be more broken &further apart than we are NOW!..even on an anniversary! You can say he did this, she did that,I? put up withâthisâ& Iâve suffered & enduredâ thisâ for so long..but the TRUTH is that this was your choice2 stay??â??we get so caught up in WE areâwinningâin love that we are LOSING a battle that doesnât have ANYTHING 2 do with us! I? decided I didnât want to be married for the sake of saying so.I wanted to have a relationship.
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Someone to share my/our dreams,our successes, our failures,our past,present & future with..& not finding out shit online??â??..some of us ??have been have been living a LIE!..& sometimes when things R shared,whatâs NOT being surfaced is that he has one or several girlfriends, or sheâs never home, or heâs very general when he speaks, or âthis doesnât sound like himâ? or heâs so busy lately!!.etc.etc..u have to think to yourself?When is enough enough? Is it ok that he checks up on u when his phone(s) R stuck to him like glue?Is it ok that his friends are HIS friends but my friends are âourâ friends? Or, we fight but thatâs âpassionâ? letâs get deep for a second..we can argue & u can tell me to gtf out of âyourâhouse when Iâm the house of cards?None of this is ok..& while Iâm not pushing anyone out of the door..Iâm just telling you what has pushed me out of mine!That LAST time was the LAST time.
Braxton and Herbert share a 4-year-old son, Logan Vincent.
Good for her.
This didn’t come as a shock to me at all.
Hmmmmnn