Dear MIMsters: Should I Be Patient With Him Or Am I Wasting My Time?

 

I have been in a relationship with this guy for over six months now and we have a beautiful relationship. I want to know if I should be patient with him or am I just wasting my time?

He hasn’t officially proposed yet but I can say I have met almost all his family members. He has asked me how I want the wedding to be and I have met his mum whom he has told he wants to marry me.

She treats me like her daughter-in-law already, meanwhile, he’s her only child and his dad is late.

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The issue here is, I want to know if he can be classified as stingy because he doesn’t give me money. He told me once that it’s only a woman he doesn’t want to keep that he spends his money on since he is only interested in her body. He said for his wife or woman he wants to marry, everything he has is her own because she is his friend and not just a wife.

I work and he knows how much I earn as salary. He earns much more than I do and is currently running an educational program, which is why our wedding is not happening now.

Please tell me, am I being impatient? He doesn’t look stingy but due to the fact that he hardly gives me money, I find it difficult asking him for money even when I am in desperate need for help but I think he ought to know that I have needs.

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We do not live in the same state and when he visits, he doesn’t give me a dime. I have no reasons to suspect that he is a womanizer because as far as I know, he puts me first. Should I exercise some patience with him? How can I tell if he’s just being stingy?