Wife Files For Divorce After Finding Out Husband’s Supposed Aunt Is But His Live-In Lover

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An Oke-Ogbere Customary Court in Ibadan on Thursday, dissolved a 3- year old marriage between one Temilade Oyeyemi and her husband, Ayo Oyeyemi on the grounds of deception and adultery.

The court president, Mr. Sulaiman Olaniyi said, “In the interest of peaceful living, the union between Temilade and Ayo has ceased to be. Temilade shall take custody of the two-and-a-half-year-old child produced by the union while Ayo shall pay a monthly allowance of N3,000 for the child’s upkeep in addition to being responsible for his welfare.”

Olaniyi, who also held that no form of deception could last forever, advised young men to take care of their parents so as not to incur the wrath of God.

Temilade, 28, while narrating her ordeal, said: “After I had pledged my future in marriage with Ayo three years ago, he completely deceived me that his concubine was his aunt. During the wedding, he introduced the same woman to my family as the only person that could stand in place of his late mother; and my family, unknowingly, accepted his deception. Ayo then took me to his mistress’s apartment to live..

Temilade who said that the woman gave her all that she needed and that she was happy living with her stated further that, “However, I noticed that at around 1 a.m. on most days, Ayo would leave my side on our matrimonial bed. He would move to the floor where his secret lover he referred to as his aunt was sleeping to romance and have sex with her. He often would blame the hot weather for his usual reason for leaving my side to sleep on the floor. It then became clear to me that Ayo and that woman were never related but that they were, in fact, secret lovers.’’

Temilade narrated further that when she was pregnant, Ayo never took care of her but abandoned her to her parents who took his responsibilities. “Ayo is not trustworthy, he is a wicked man, dissolve our union”, Temilade pleaded in the court room.

The respondent, Ayo, 38, conceded to the dissolution of the marriage after he had denied some of the allegations leveled against him by his wife, Temilade.

Ayo, who claimed to be a building engineer, contended that his wife was a ‘good-for-nothing and lazy woman.’

He said, “My lord, I am responsible for my cooking and washing; I have all along catered for Temilade’s needs.”

In his own testimony, Ayo’s father pointed out that his son was a terrible husband and a fornicator, however, he begged the court to settle the matter for his son and his wife saying, “Ayo never told anybody in the family about his wedding and we are surprised about how everything has turned out. No one knows the concubine he is parading as his aunt. In fact, Ayo has never taken care of me since I had an accident in 2010. I am praying this court to settle the matter for them.”

Some of Temilade’s family members in their separate testimonies presented evidences of how Ayo maltreated the petitioner and prayed the court to terminate the union.

The News Agency of Nigeria reports that Temilade resides in Agbeni area while Ayo lives in Monatan area of Ibadan; Oyo State.