South African pastor and businessman, Dr. Thomas Mukala, has advised his fellow men to be open and transparent with their wives.
In his post, which might upset some men, the happily married man of God stated that all wives have a right to their husband’s phones and his password as marriage requires a full disclosure.
According to the dad-of-three who has been married since 2012, the wife has a right to know that her husband is not risking her life with an immoral lifestyle because she has entrusted him with her future.
The clergyman wrote;
“YOUR WIFE HAS A RIGHT TO YOUR PHONE. What are you hiding? How come she doesn’t know your password?
Either you are hiding a woman or money deals or miss using your money. Marriage require a full disclosure.
All Wife has a right to her husband’s phone, I am advising men to be open and transparent to their wives
She has entrusted you with her future. She has a right to know that you’re not risking her life with an immoral lifestyle
So many women are insecure in their marriages because of secrecies around the man’s phone
Your wife must know every deal you transact. Why are you working so hard if not for your family?
Your money as a man is not your money, it is family money. God blesses you to support your family. It’s your honour to hand over your salary to your wife.
Women in general are far better than Men in planning family finances. While many men scatter family resources, but most women and not all account for every penny. Like my Wife.
MY WIFE DOES NOT SPEND R10 WITHOUT MY APPROVAL INCLUDING HER SALARY, VISE VERSA.”
