Preacher, Laurie Idahosa Dishes Out A Golden Word Of Advise To Single Women: ‘Save The Unnecessary Heartbreak’
Author and clergywoman, Laurie Idahosa, has given a golden word of advice to single ladies waiting for Mr. Right.
Pastor Laurie who is the Pastor of My Church Unusual, in a post shared on her social media page, advised them to stop committing to men prematurely and instead wait for him to communicate his intentions clearly.
According to Laurie who is married to Bishop F.E. Benson Idahosa, the first son of late Archbishop Idahosa, ladies should keep their options open until a man tells them he wants to be committed to them in clear terms.
The motivational speaker and mother of three wrote:
“Ladies, don’t commit to a man prematurely. If he isn’t telling you that he wants to be committed to you and only you and if he isn’t asking you for exclusivity, keep your options open. He isn’t yours till he makes it clear that he’s yours. Save the unnecessary heartbreak.”
She continues:
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Warning Strong Advice
When a man wants to be with you in a committed relationship, he will make himself clear. If he doesn’t, you will keep seeking for clarity when it is staring you in the face.
If he isn’t ready, the whole thing will look and feel confusing. You’ll be hot one day and cold the next. No consistency.
Once his mind is made up, he knows how to get his point across.
Why should ladies be any different? We don’t need to sit around like beggars for commitment.
Know what you are looking for and don’t settle for less than what brings you peace and what fulfills God’s purpose. Stop trying to make every square peg fit into a round hole, justifying nonsense.
Guard your heart and keep your options open.
Oh, and if he ever blocks you, e get why.”
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