Nigerian Midwife Talks On Women and Orgasm
It is sad to find that a good number of women, who have never had an orgasm in their lives have been married for years, and some do not even know what it is.
An orgasm is the heightened pleasure a woman feels during sex, often times she ejaculates, just like a man, which is referred to as squirting. It will surprise you to know that a woman can have multiple rounds of orgasms in a single round of sex, where men need to ‘relax‘ after one.
A Nigerian midwife, identified as Chikaodinaka Peace Nnadozie, has made a rather shocking revelation about the married women in her sex and sexual health online class.
Taking to Facebook, the Nigerian midwife disclosed that 80% of the married women have never experienced orgasm while having sexual intercourse with their husbands.
She said it is alarming because most of these women are sexually dissatisfied in their marriages. According to her, it’s even worse for most women married to Igbo men as they are sex starved and stuck in an unromantic marriage.
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Nnadozie wrote,
“This is more serious than you think. I have a WhatsApp group where I teach married women and single ladies sex and sexual health, the day I taught about orgasm, about 80% of the married women have not experienced it. And most of them married to Igbo men, are in sexless and un-romantic marriages.”
Reacting to her post;
One Chike wrote:
A man will work hard and marry an Igbo woman, pay so much amount for bride price and still take care of her and their children. Work all is life to be a provider. And you are asking for orgasm because I came to this world because of u, nwane if u didn’t experience orgasm that one concern u. If u go out and cheat, u get out of my house. égbè eluigwe gbaa gị.
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@Anonymous added:
These are the issues o. For their mind, many of these men believe they are a girl’s heaven in bed. And we women don’t help by faking orgasms when clearly the man hasn’t done his part. Upon that, they will still cheat. Very few men take the time to learn how to at least make a lady orgasm.
Many women are trapped in marriages and will probably die in those marriages without orgasm. Vibrator sef dey do pass many of these men. It’s not about how hard you pump or how long you bang. Can you make your woman climax? These men need sexual health and coaching too.
Many men don’t even know what a clitoris is or where it is. And that’s the one place 100% of women will climax if you know how to handle it. I even had to teach my husband. Na wa. You men should swallow your pride and learn the right thing.
@Nkechi commented:
She is saying the truth. Igbo men are very unromantic and pompous. They think money is everything.
@Idok added:
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…This traits though are not hallmarks of most Men. They just climb on and climb down. Hence the never ending problem. But, My wife de testify… Choi!! At least twice or 3 times in a week as circumstances allow. She must come for daddy!!
@Titi wrote:
Yoruba men are worse; no orgasm, no money, no romance…..just climb and come down …… Mtcheeeeewwwww
@Kenny responded:
Not true. Yoruba men are more romantic and care for you to climax too. By yoruba I mean the young and educated ones not when you go and meet a 65year old baba Ijebu you’ll be expecting miracles.
@Bassey added:
Reaching orgasm is something that involves 2 people. The woman said mostly Igbo men , the question is what is the percentage of Igbo women on your group relatively? Most of these women are circumcised; most of them stay stiff and hold themselves from even opening their leg in a missionary position; most of them will lay down there like log of wood 🪵.
Some of them won’t allow the man to even go down on them as a husband if the man is the type who does that. Some will stop you from continuing to touch or suck them when you get their crazy spot . The list go on and on. You guys should leave the men alone and it’s not just Igbo , this complaint is everywhere. Communication is the key.