Accountant Narrates How Her Friend’s Sacrifice For A Man She Dated For 3 Years Was Repaid In A Brutal Way
A woman has taken to Facebook to narrate how her friend’s ordeal with her man after sacrificing everything for him.
The accountant, identified as Chioma Ifeanyi-Eze, explained that her friend, now over 45, dated a man whom she housed and respected for three years.
According to her, her said friend lived with her siblings so when the man moved in with them, her siblings joined in taking care of him, including washing his clothes and cooking his food.
The man was also allowed to drive the woman’s car. After all the sacrifices the woman made, when the man was ready to marry, he left without an explanation and married someone else.
14 years on, the man has a happy family and is living well, while the woman is still heartbroken, unmarried and without kids of her own.
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Read the story below;
“Many years ago, my friend dated a certain guy.
They worked in the same office. They tried so hard to hide their relationship from colleagues at work.
But at some point he suffered a major housing issue and had to move in with her.
She was the oldest and had 3 younger siblings living with her.
They accepted him in.
They did his laundry.
They called him Sir.
They served his food.
They attended to him.
They respected him.The relationship kept going on.
She had a car, he started driving both of them to work together.
After a while, it seemed they couldn’t hide it anymore and the whole office knew of it.
She was a reserved person while he was a bit more outgoing.
So when they weren’t at work, he was out and about with her car.
He lived with her for over 3 years that I can remember.
I know many times I would ask her why they weren’t formalizing their marriage instead of just living together.
She would say she has asked severally and he says he is saving up so they can do both the marriage and move out of that house, leaving it for her siblings.
Suddenly one day, my friend got a call from a lady.
The lady was calling her all sorts of names and asking her to leave her man alone.
They lady told her they were getting married soon and she was just a hopeless old wit*ch.
My friend called and told me.
She asked the man.
He denied knowing anything.Long story short.
The calls and insults and threats from this other woman continued.
Our man kept denying.
My friend did some digging and found the girl to be true.
Within a few weeks, our man moved out and married that girl.
It’s been over 14 years now.
My friend suffered a major major heartbreak and never found love again.
She is over 45 now and not married.
Both my friend and the man are my Facebook friends.
I see him post his kids birthdays as they keep growing.
I never healed so I never comment on his posts.
I guess in life we win some, we lose some.
I have never stopped wondering why he did it this way.
He used her car, her siblings, her sweat and everything to take himself a wife. Why didn’t he have the decency to tell her and maybe explain why he couldn’t marry her.
It would have been painful, but atleast we would find some closure.
Two of her 3 siblings died after the heartbreak. They were ill.. She almost went mad.
She cried so much that till date, I feel her face has a fixed crying state on it.
My heart remains ever so heavy about her.
I hope that someday, I can look at his family pictures that he posts often and truly find healing.
It’s been such a struggle.”
