Why This Nigerian Man, Okey Aliu Is Advising Newly Married Women Against Living In Same House With Their Mother In-law
A Nigerian man who identifies as Okey Aliu has shared some valuable advise with newly married women about living in the same house with their husband and mother in-law.
In a post that he shared on his Facebook page, Aliu revealed that newly married women should kick against living in the same house with their mother in-law, especially Anambra mother in-law.
However, according to the poster, if any woman wants to live with her mother in-law after their wedding, she should think, rethink and overthink her choice and make sure she is mentally, psychologically, emotionally and physically fit to cope.
His full post read;
“If you will be staying in the same house permanently with your husband and mother-in-law, especially Anambra’s Mother-in-law after wedding as a lady, please think, rethink and overthink your choice and make sure you are mentally, psychologically, emotionally and physically fit to cope.
I have said these things times without number but many of you don’t use to rate me. You think I just love to rant online or dive into discussions I have no experience on.
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No matter how much love you think your Mother-in-law has towards you as a lady, the best way to enjoy such peace is to stay far away from her.
Some of you young girls thinks it’s the same plate they used in serving you the first day you visited that they will continue to use to serve you.
See, If you and your husband will be living together with his Mother in the same house, make sure your husband is not the type that dances to every tone of his mother. Make sure he doesn’t rate his mother’s opinions over yours always. You will see shege.
Then if he now has single sisters who have come of age staying together as well in the same house with their mother and your husband, congratulations to you. Na glorified slave you go be. Shege pro max
If you like don’t read to understand and borrow yourself sense. Come here to tell me how good some mother-in-laws are. Tell me how I shouldn’t talk about Anambra Mothers
Eat shawarma and ice cream this week and throw my advise away
Na You go hear am hot hot when e go set.”
See screenshot of post below,