Dear MIMsters: I Still Want to Be a Mother But My Husband Is Acting Weird

My dear husband is acting weird and I do not what I have done to deserve this. I got married in November 2013. We had both traditional and white wedding.

Since we got married, we have been trying to conceive. We’ve sought help from two doctors and we were told that my husband’s sperm was weak while I had PID. We were treated and my husband was given some drugs to boost his sperm but without a positive result.

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My husband refused to see the doctor for another appointments. He said he was OK and we should stop discussing anything related to this matter again. So I left him alone and started trusting God for a miracle.

In May this year, my husband came back from work one night and told me he went to one church. At that church, he was told that I am the cause of his downfall. He said since he married me he has not progressed and that he can no longer continue to live in  bondage. He said that they told him my mum initiated me into marine spirit and it is affecting his progress.

I was surprised at his accusations. I warned him that people are misleading him and that he should not fall for it. I told him to say what is in his mind and he should stop accusing me and my mum.

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The next day, he drove me out of his house and sent all my belongings to my parent’s house. He told them he doesn’t want to see me near his house or he will call police on me. He told my parents that I am bad luck to him who has affected his progress since he married me. My parents were shocked and angry with him. My younger brother called him and was insulted and they exchanged words.

The next day, he brought some policemen to my parent’s house to arrest my brother. He lied to the police that my brother came to his house with a bunch of people to rob him. My brother was discharged on bail that day. My parents told him since he has lost interest in our marriage, he should remove the oat he placed on my head.

During our traditional wedding, my husband insisted I take an that no other man will sleep with me, except him. Now, that we have parting ways, I am still not free because I’m under his bondage and I can’t remarry if he doesn’t remove it.

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He told my parents he must collect 150k for as refund for money he spent on my parents and I, meanwhile, the bride price collected was only 35k. He has since refused to hold a meeting with us to tell us the outcome of the 150k. How do I go ahead with my life? I really want to be a mother someday.