Dear MIMsters: 31 Weeks Pregnant and Looks Like I’m in a One Chance Situation
I’m 18 years old and 31 weeks pregnant and in a one chance relationship. It was not so from the beginning.
When first realised I was pregnant, I revealed the news to the owner of the pregnancy who I have been in a relationship with for 3 years and he was so happy about it.
He then asked me to move in with him but his home was far from where I was staying and working. Later, I had to leave my job when I was about 15 weeks pregnant and decided to move in with him.
I was really puzzled when he turned around and bluntly stopped me from moving in with him until I give birth.
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I talked to my sister and she gave me some money to rent a place. He started visiting me at my new place. I was not happy with this arrangement at all. On his last visit, I accidentally stumbled across some messages on his phone while I was playing a game on it.
I became furious and asked him about the person and he said it’s just a friend. I let it be but she kept on calling and he kept ignoring her calls. I decided to copy down the number and started chatting with the girl. She admitted my fiancé is her boyfriend and they have made out a number of times.
I broke down and asked him about it and he was mute not until he recently told me that I should know that the girl I’m asking him about is his girlfriend and I should be ready to deal with it.
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I didn’t mind that but he told me all he wants from me is his child and nothing else. I really need your advise because I love him and wouldn’t mind being a single mother but am now I’m jobless and pregnant at the same time.
What should I do because I am not ready to give up my child to be raised by another woman?
Whatever you do, do not give your child up. And again, the earlier you realize that guy doesn’t love you the better.
Hmmmmnn…dont ever give him dat child…move on with life he nvr loved
First of all, u got pregnant, d discussion or plan was supposed to be to pay your bride price and not to move in with him. Now he has told u his mind, go to your parents, or mum or dad. Tell them cos u can’t fight him alone in terms of taking the child. You should look for who will help u with ur son when he is born cos u need to go back to skl. In the next five years, u will be a graduate and be able to secure a good future for u and your son. From now till years to come, cancel boyfriend, just lock your legs and throw the keys. U focus on your future and that of your son, u will still meet a successful man that will respect u when you know what you want in life. All the best
Please take care of your child yourself, don’t let him suffer for sin he did not commit.