Former housemate of the 2018 Big Brother Naija (BBNaija) reality show recently shared her opinion on the topic of infidelity among married men.
The ex-reality star, Ifu Ennada on an Instastory post made a personal revelation about married men who flaunt pictures of their wives and children on social media.
According to Ifu, such men are usually the ones who proudly wear the crown of infidelity despite their efforts at playing pretense online. She wrote:
“Most men who usually post the pictures of their wives and kids are the ones who cheat the most.”
The beautiful young woman continued in her post by expressing that she has witnessed a lot of experiences that made her reach such conclusions.
She added by begging God to keep temptation away from her as she only wants whatever God wants for her. The single lady wrote:
“The things my eyes have seen, God please continue to guide me. Keep temptation away from me. I only want what you want for me.”
While in the BBNaija 2018 house, Ifu revealed how she was one raped and infected with an STI by a male figure in the entertainment industry.
“My Virginity Story; Rape & Depression. When I was in the Big Brother House emotions were raised when during a Truth or Dare game I said I’d not really had sex.
People interpreted that as me claiming to be a Virgin. The truth is in 2016 I was raped by someone in the entertainment industry, before then I was a Virgin.
This person also infected me with an STI… I was also threatened by this person and was very scared of social media’s bashing with the usual questions of “what was she wearing!” ” why did she go to his house ?”… so in all my sadness and depression I decided to tell the world what had happened to me using film as a medium.
I was inspired to write and produce my film – Tears of A Broken Virgin. I got a lot of help from social media – people volunteered to work for me free of charge even my director – Benny Atagame Alli.
Though some parts of my film is fiction, the bulk of it was inspired by my story. The lead character’s name is Ada which is a short form of my name Adanne- popularly pronounced as Ennada.
Because of my sad experience I battled depression, developed trust issues and found it hard to connect with people especially men. I wanted to tell my story and also pass a strong message to rape victims and rapists…I hope I was able to do that with my film.
I intend to expand this into a feature length film. I hope everyone out there is inspired to stand up against rape.”
