Kenneth Okonkwo Explains ‘The Worst Possible Thing That Can Happen To Any Relationship’ In His Advise To Singles
Nollywood legend, Kenneth Okonkwo has advised people to quit any relationship if they cannot comfortably communicate how they feel to their partner.
Kenneth, in a post on his Facebook page, asserted that the worst possible thing that can happen to any relationship is for partners to second-guess each other due to a breakdown in or lack of communication.
According to the veteran, it is true that talking about issues could be exhausting, especially if your partner is someone who doesn’t listen or someone who does not put in the efforts to change things.
He then advised that it is better to liberate yourself from the emotional, psychological, and mental torture than to remain stuck in it, because surely, what you have going is not a relationship.
Below is his full post…
”The worst possible thing that can happen to any relationship is for partners to second-guess each other due to a break-down in or lack of communication.
It’s true that talking about issues could be exhausting, especially if your partner is someone who doesn’t listen or someone who doesn’t put in the efforts to change things.
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But I have to say this: If your relationship has gotten to that point where you no longer communicate your feelings to each other, because you think that doing so is a waste of time. Please, quit it.
It’s better to liberate yourself from the emotional, psychological and mental torture than to remain stuck in it, because surely, what you have going is not a relationship.
It’s perpetual suffering.”
Reacting to his submission,
@sirtijaja wrote:
For the sake of your mental health, avoid people who don’t know how to communicate especially If you are big on communication. Make sure you find someone who finds it easy to talk, and express their thoughts or concerns. A lot of people find solace in keeping quiet.
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@itobiloba wrote:
True! A relationship can’t thrive or survive without good communication. Being able to have heart-to-heart talks about big issues, as well as open and honest communication about everything, including the little things, is vital to any healthy relationship.
@philopearl wrote:
Don’t make your partner feel like a stranger in the relationship. There should be clarity on things and good communication.