A Zimbabwean, Memory Danzi, 34, has been left in utter shock after she discovered that her husband, Clemence George Chibaya Chiwenga, whom she married 3 years ago is in fact a woman. Even though she has slept with ‘him’ on numerous occasions, she didn’t know he used a small pestle, (mutswi) as ‘his’ manhood.
Danzi chronicled her experience in a report by Manica Post:
When newsmen caught up with Danzi who tearfully chronicled the hard to believe events surrounding the three-year affair with the suspect, she said she felt grossly cheated and abused.
“I fell in love with this ‘man’ in 2013, but I later went and stayed in Macheke. I came back to Mutare in 2015 and we reignited our romance. Before ‘he’ dated me, I only knew ‘him’ as a carpenter and ‘he’ used to repair my furniture. Then, ‘he’ had a wife and ‘he’ used to come to my house in the afternoon and went back to his wife in the evening. In August this year ‘he’ separated from his wife and came to stay with me at my house.
‘He’ told me that ‘he’ chased his wife away because she wanted to poison ‘him’. I was surprised one of the days when I told one of my children, Masset, to go and do our laundry. She went and did the laundry from a nearby stream.
I did not know that Chiwenga’s pants were among the dirty clothes. As Masset did the laundry she noticed that the pants were stained with menstrual blood.”
Masset came running and broke the news to her mother. She could not believe what she saw.
”She told me that my husband’s pants were stained with blood and asked me if ‘he’ also menstruates. I was shocked. I requested to view the pants and for sure they were stained with blood. I took the pants and hid them. When he came back at night I asked ‘him’ if ‘he’ suffers from a sexually transmitted disease for I suspected that the blood stains could have been so because of a disease.
“‘He’ played hide-and-seek and refused to tell me what was going on. For the next five days I noticed the blood stains on ‘his’ pants and my suspicion grew. In our relationship ‘he’ didn’t want me to caress ‘him’. He didn’t want me to remove ‘his’ clothes.
“‘His’ breasts are bigger than mine and when I asked ‘him’ to explain the abnormality, ‘he’ said they were big because ‘he’ was a weightlifter. One day I gave ‘him’ hot water to bath and I followed ‘him’ in the bathroom. When I got in I got the shock of my life. I asked ‘him’ why ‘he’ lied all these years and ‘he’ asked for forgiveness. I told ‘him’ to leave my house, but ‘he’ refused. I later discovered that ‘he’ was using a pestle in making love to me. I confronted ‘him’ over the issue and ‘he’ confessed that ‘he’ would put two condoms on the pestle each time we become intimate.
“I located the pestle and hid it. We quarreled over the pestle as I wanted to take it to the police and ‘he’ wanted to destroy it. I managed to hide it under the mattress. Every time we slept together I felt deep pain and I had difficulties in walking because of the pestle ‘he’ used. I later opened up to my relatives and told them everything. Right now I am having endless menstrual periods because of that pestle ‘he’ used,” she said.
Meanwhile, at the police station, Chiwenga denied ever using the pestle on the complainant. She said she used her fingers in making love and that the pestle allegations were being cooked up by Danzi in a bid to fix her for not giving her money.
This is unbelievable. How did she use the pestle without her suspecting(even in darkness)? How do you get intimate with a ‘man’ without an election?
Na wa oh ahn ahn. There’s nothing we will not hear in this life.
Pure lies, she has another man dat is y she cook up such stories,according to her he had a wife which he left to be with her. and they have stay together for three years yet she didn’t know. pls let her separate with the man cos they were never mean to be as far as he had separate from his first wife,.
Too bad
Jesus Christ of Nazareth!! ☺
this stry…hmmmmnn.let me get my microscope
This is not a real marriage, how could you be married to a person and you ain’t intimately close?
this is satanic
This is unbelievable. How did she use the pestle without her suspecting(even in darkness)? How do you get intimate with a ‘man’ without an election?
Na wa oh ahn ahn. There’s nothing we will not hear in this life.
Pure lies, she has another man dat is y she cook up such stories,according to her he had a wife which he left to be with her. and they have stay together for three years yet she didn’t know. pls let her separate with the man cos they were never mean to be as far as he had separate from his first wife,.
Too bad
Jesus Christ of Nazareth!! ☺
this stry…hmmmmnn.let me get my microscope
This is not a real marriage, how could you be married to a person and you ain’t intimately close?