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UPDATE: Man Whose DNA Test Revealed He Is Not The Biological Father Of His First Son Does The Unexpected

UPDATE: Man Whose DNA Test Revealed He Is Not The Biological Father Of His First Son Does The Unexpected

Dear MIM, thank you for posting my story.

I was the man who had a DNA test done on his son and it was proven that I am not the biological dad. Going through all the responses, both on Facebook and on the website, I got very emotional and cried.

Let me tell you a little about myself. I am from a very poor background, where I had nothing. Life was hard growing up, and I became a hustler at a very young age. I met my wife along the line, who is from a privileged background and she accepted me for who I was despite oppositions from several parties.

SEE ALSO: Dear MIM: DNA Test Revealed My First Son Isn’t Mine But My Wife Is A Good Woman

She raised me up, helped me, introduced me to people and supported me with prayers. Today, I can say I am very comfortable with a company that employs about 250 people. After going through all the responses, I have decided to forgive my wife, because I know she would have done the same.

Seeing “my son” (yes, my son) going to school this morning after telling me goodbye melted my heart, and I don’t think I can stop being his dad. I had a heart to heart talk with my wife this morning, and I told her I have forgiven her and I am ready to take this secret to the grave if she is ready.

I want to thank everyone who commented and I promise you all and God almighty that I won’t rub it in her face, no matter what happens. I will bring the boy up and will always be there for him. Chi Nomso, your comment got me and I pray for you today. MIM, you are doing a great thing here. God bless you. My heart was heavy before sending my story in, but right now, it’s as light as a feather.

You guys really made a difference. Moms and Dad, God bless you all.

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  • Dear poster, you are indeed a man and a great father. God bless you loads. I pray for more blessings for you and your family for this that you have done.

  • Wowwwwwwwww! I am so speechless. Men like you are rare and love the fact that you recognized and appreciate your wife for being with you when you had nothing. God will continue to bless your home .

  • Thank God for giving you the grace to forgive and let go. He will reward you in due season in Jesus name.

  • Aww! You’re a great man..God bless you sir and may he’s love and peace nvr depart from your home.

  • God bless you for this…..and may d good lord continue to bless ur marriage…..just wait and see,dat boi wud do you so many good tins dat even biological sons have neva done to dia fathers…..nd pls keep to ur promise no mata wot…ur one in a million!

  • Fathers like you are very rare. Thank God for you. I’m happy for you and I pray that the joy that has always been in your family will not diminish. Keep a joyful heart and put everything behind you. God bless you and yours

  • It’s a thing of joy that you’ve decided to forgive your wife. Sir, may God continue to bless, guide and strengthen your marriage IJN.

  • Dear poster we are glad your home is back in one piece. May happiness, love, and peace never leave your home

  • waooo, tank God for u. Let d peace of d Lord dat passeth all understanding b with u n ur family, amen

  • Chie! I feel like crying while reading dis dear poster God must bless u for dis act is not easy hw many pole out there cn do d same?

  • oh my God. your wife is not just lucky to have a kind hearted man as a husband. she is blessed. continue been a good man, and God will keep blessing you. it is not all women that will have the heart to confess of this, but she did regardless of the consequences. Madam heavens has recorded this. you are indee
    d a virtues woman. God bless your family.

  • Thank God for u man continue to enjoy ur marriage men like u are hard to see what has happened has happened also thank God for ur wife who even had the courage to confess to u its becos of the love she has for u.for that little boy he is already a part of u keep loving him.God bless u

  • Dear poster,
    I read your complaint and read the contributions from great minds around the world. All I did at the time was pray. But today, I choose to celebrate you, you have a heart of gold. God bless you. Please take good care of your family and let God do for you, that which man cannot do for you. God bless you greatly!

  • Thanks so much, now I know God answers prayers. My prayers are answered. You are a rare gem, and I appreciate your wife too for opening up cz some would have kept mute till death or issues calls. May God uphold your home till the end of days.

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