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Dear MIMsters: My Boo Hurt Me and I Clapped Back. Was I Wrong?

Dear MIMsters: My Boo Hurt Me and I Clapped Back. Was I Wrong?

So my boo and I had a disagreement in the car and he wouldn’t talk to me no matter how much I pleaded with him too. Out of anger, I told him he had the choice to drop me or talk to me. He went ahead to drop me.

Meanwhile, I came on this trip just to visit him and I don’t know my way around town. I didn’t expect him to drop me because it was even raining! Ahh this dude had the mind to drop me oh. I got out of the car and slammed the car door shut. I called one of our mutual friends who came and took me to an eatery, then I went to an ATM to withdraw money so I could pay my transport and back to the park.

I have 3 allegations against boo.

1. He dropped me in the rain in a foreign land.

2.He knew I didn’t have cash with me but he didn’t care.

3.He hurt me by telling a friend of his that I broke his side mirror. Ahh!! This was when I slammed the door of his car shut when he dropped me off. The side mirror of his official car was shattered.

MIMsters, I’ve been feeling bad since. Is that expensive to repair the side mirror a Hilux? Anytime he calls, he abuses me, my villagers and my ancestors. He told me that I lack home training blah blah blah. I’m even confused because the way he turned the table against is magically unbelievable to the point that I started apologizing oh!

I guess the one that put him was the SMS I sent immediately he dropped me. I told him, “you will regret this act” So, he’s been saying I’ve done my worst I should expect his. Am I no longer allowed to express myself when I am angry because I am a woman?

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  • And you want to continue in this relationship? He didn’t act maturedly at all.

  • Yes ,he’s immature. But men r babies generally. U guys had an argument. Since he wasn’t talking to u , y not let him be till u both get home. By then he would have calmed down . For his side mirror to break I trust u must have used all ur strength to bang d door shut. He’s was wrong n u as well. Two wrongs don’t make a right my dear.

    • Thanks for your honest and unbiased opinion. I wonder why everyone else only sees the wrong the guy did without seeing that the lady was wrong too. We don’t even know what caused the disagreement in the first place.

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