Dear MIMsters: Am I On Track to Call this Relationship Quits?

Am I on the right track to call this quits?

I’m a 26 year-old working class woman who has been dating this 33 year-old working class guy for the past two years.

Before we started dating, he told me he had a daughter and I didn’t see it as a big deal. Now that we are preparing for our wedding coming up soon, I received an anonymous call from a woman who claims to be his wife who has two kids, a set of twin boys to be precise for him.

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I called his dad who confirmed it. He told me that his son was not married to her, and that she is just a baby mama.

The issue now is this, he never told me of these two boys with another woman until I got that call. His reason is he didn’t tell me because he didn’t want to hurt me.

Even though I love this guy so much, I am calling it quits.

What do you Mums think? Do you think I am on track to call this relationship quits?

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“Dear MIMsters: Am I On Track to Call this Relationship Quits?”
  • That’s the right thing to do, let him go and carry his cross biko. You’re too young for this madness and you can’t deal with it. How did the baby mama get your number? Please don’t allow any desperate woman land acid on your fresh face.

  • But why, if he really loves you why did he keep the twins boys to himself, but he told you about his daughter, dear ask him the age of the twins if they are less than 2 years, you might be in trouble because he was seeing both of you at the same time

    • Your comment makes sense. Ladies should learn to investigate and not be blinded by the love that eventually kills. I wouldn’t go ahead just yet because if the kids are younger than when you started – DO NOT IGNORE THE SIGNS!

  • You are doing the right thing by calling it quits. You do not know what other surprises will spring forth after marriage. He is not a honest person.

  • Dear be very firm in this decision, hurt as it may be,move on,this man is not a sincere person,more heartbreaking surprises if u go ahead.

  • Dear be very firm in this decision, hurt as it may be,move on,this man is not a sincere person,more heartbreaking surprises if u go ahead.ur right man will come.

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