No you are not wrong. At almost 40, you need financial security, I mean what if something happens to him tomorrow? How do you women stay married to men that treat you like crap? How can a man threaten you with divorce? And you obliged him? You stopped your life to save your marriage, yet you are treated like this. Reply
Hmmmmn most pettyy men are intimidated and scared of an independent strong woman…go get urself a job Reply
Are you a gold digger? I would not have a clue. There are two sides to every story. Stop asking for opinions that might justify your sense of victimhood. Go get a job and your own bank account. Perhaps even start that business up if you have the gumption. You can also just get a divorce, take half, and move on. Be warned though, if your husband is not loaded, you will most likely have to get a job after divorcing. You want a 30k sign on bonus? That is almost unheard of unless one has mad skills, intellect, experience, etc. Why don’t you separate money from the equation of your relationship. Go get a job or zip it. Reply
