I am confused and need mature advice.
I have been in an exclusive relationship with this man that I love so much and I know he loves me too or so I thought. He has been there for me more than I can count. The problem is I am now pregnant for him, and this is the fourth time. I have been impregnated by him three times but aborted all three.
When I told him that I was pregnant again, at first, he said he would go and discuss with his uncle so we can start our wedding plans (he’s an orphan). Later, he told me his uncle has refused to come see my parents with him because of our religious differences.
His mother’s side of the family according to him would not be present without at least someone from his father’s family being present. He’s a Muslim and I am a Christian. He said he would go to his uncle twice after the first visit and if by the third visit he maintains he cannot be present, he would make a decision.
Now, he’s stopped picking my calls and would not reply my messages.
This morning I called him and he said, “if you decide to keep the pregnancy, its your business. I will not say or do anything”.
I have cried my eyes out since he made that statement. I do not want to go through the pain and rejection. Meanwhile, the partners in the firm I work in are very conservative. I know they cannot fire me for getting pregnant but they can certainly make the next 7 months difficult for me. People are very judgemental. I know this for a fact because the same thing happened to a lady in my office. Please advice me, I am so disturbed .