Dear MIMsters: I need help to break this embarrassing yoke

I am badly in need of help to break this embarrassing yoke.

I’m 25 years-old and I still bed wet. I wet the bed in my boyfriend’s house. I can’t go to anyone’s house to spend a night because of the fear of disgracing myself. Some will advise me to avoid eating and drinking at night. I have tried all that but nothing has changed.

Sometimes, it occurs around 4.3o in the wee hours of the morning, even after waking up earlier to go use the bathroom . Sometimes it occurs around mid night. I could be awake till mid night, and still end up wetting the bed. I don’t get the urge to pee in the night when I am asleep. I have even prayed about it but nothing has worked.

I can be cured for a month, then it reoccurs again for like three times in a week at a stretch. Wetting my bed with wee requires me taking my mattress out for sunning and washing my bedsheets everyday.

My parents have not done anything about it so far. I am so ashamed that I can’t even talk about it to anybody. This is a yoke upon me and I want it to be destroyed. Please help!