I am 27 years old who got divorced 2 years ago. I lost interest in men completely so whenever a new man comes my way, I would ignore due to my past.
But after many encouragements from my mum, I decided to try dating again.
Recently, two weeks ago to be precise, I met this guy who at first sight told me, “I will marry you.”
I wasn’t moved but I just laughed. He kept repeating it every. He told me he had a daughter, a 13-year-old with his baby mama and was never married. I played along but tried to be very observant.
A few days ago, I checked his phone and saw a photo of this 13-year-old girl, a woman with other 2 kids taken in a room. It looked like a family picture.
I asked him who the woman was and he told me that she is daughter’s aunty and the other kids are hers.
To cut the whole story short, when I called yesterday at about 8 pm, he thought I had dropped the call but I hadn’t. I overheard a little girl whose voice sounded like that of a 3-year old calling, “daddy.”
I called him again with my mum’s line and I angrily asked him, “so you are a family man.” All he could say was, “listen to me,” but I hung up and switched off my phone. It’s funny but painful. I already called it quit inside of me but I need to deal with him for wanting to deceive me or should I just quietly let it go?