Married Mom, Pastor Mildred Okonkwo Speaks On Whether Masturbation And Phone Sex Are Allowed For Couples In A Distant Marriage

Pastor Mildred Okonkwo, wife of lead pastor of David Christian Centre, Kingsley Okonkwo has responded to questions about couples in a distant marriage and if it’s Okay for them to engage in masturbation and phone sex while they are living apart.

While answering a question on the controversial topic, she said:

“It’s a distant marriage and your sexual needs have to be met.”

The clergywoman added:

“The Bible tells us that there’s no… God doesn’t really give us clear instructions on what to do inside your marriage.

“When you’re married, he kind of leaves you guys to know how to explore. So, there’s no rule that says, oh, don’t kiss on the forehead, kiss in the ear. It doesn’t break it down.

“So, when it comes to that kind of thing, God is trusting both of you to make the decision on what really works.”

She went further:

“And if there’s no other way for their sexual needs to be met, what should they do? They should burn? They are married so it is their decision.”

Mrs Okonkwo added that phone sex between a married couple living apart only becomes a problem when the couple can’t complete the phone sex due to whatever issues such as poor network and one partner then goes off, looking for someone else to finish off with.