‘Your Serious Boyfriend Is Not Your Husband…’ – Nigerian Filmmaker, Aniebiet Addresses Single Women
Nigerian actress and filmmaker, Aniebiet Francis, has advised women to not shut themselves out of the dating market because they have serious boyfriends who refer to them as ‘wives’.
According to Francis, your serious boyfriend is not your husband. The actress went on to advise single ladies in serious relationships to make themselves for dates with other guys they have connections with.
Below is her full message to ladies…
“Dear Single Sister, your serious boyfriend is not your husband. Please don’t shut yourself out of the dating market because one guy is carrying you on his head and his friends are calling you our wife.
Please make yourself available for dinner and lunch dates with guys you think you have a connection with.
Listen, inside that your serious relationship, there are other serious relationships. His friends know and the society has no problem with a guy dating multiple women simultaneously. Their excuse is, he needs to pick the best from these women.
Please, I am not asking you to jump into bed with every guy out there, Just be available. Exchange numbers, smile back, receive and reciprocate compliments. Don’t act taken when the contest is still on.
If he has a safety net, you also deserve one. A good girl won’t do this, but a smart girl will. That is why good girls are always victims of emotional fraud.
THIS IS A VERY UNPOPULAR OPINION THAT WONT SIT WELL WITH MANY. BUT IT IS THE TRUTH!”
@Annabel:
Some useless men with no sense will come and bash her but she is absolutely right. If a man can be choosing to play his game right to pick a good woman, a woman can do same.
@Bella:
Women, take this post seriously. She is right.
@Bukky:
And that is why after dating for 5 years you break up and he is married in 6 months or less. Many good girls fall for this nonsense. Unless you are officially courting, your boyfriend most know other men are interested in you. If he is serious he will moved to courtship. Even in courtship there most have been very serious actions and very serious commitments ongoing. And if you don’t want to marry someone, don’t hang on to them, that’s pure wickedness…
@Sparkle:
“A good girl won’t do this, but a smart girl will. That is why good girls are always victims of emotional fraud” 💯🎯
