Woman Laments Over Hubby’s Reluctance to Start a Family, Seeks Advice

A 21-year-old lady frustrated about her husband’s reluctance to start a family took to Reddit to share her heartache and seek advice, claiming he feels used for sperm and she feels used for sex.

Read her post below:

I feel like I am going crazy. I am crying at least once a week that my husband does not want to have children with me. Yet. It’s always been soon dear. Or next year. And I am at my wits end. I want at least three children for a fact. I’ve been changing diapers since I was three. I have been looking after my sisters since I was four. Not entirely legal but it was fact. I am 21 and my husband is 31, and he has a ~$80k year salary. We owe normal amounts of mortgage, have normal amounts of credit card debt ($500), and we go on vacations bi yearly to colorado or Florida. He wants to wait until we are more financially stable.

This is killing me. We are having fights about this. It kills my sex drive when he says he doesn’t want to finish inside of me. Instant turn off. He feels used for sperm, I feel used for sex. Vicious cycle.

And the only conclusion is that I will continue to resent him until I find a baby daddy (don’t underestimate the power of hormones) for myself (jk) or he resents me for all the pressure I put on him.

Please I’m begging all single, married, with or without children men and women to please give me some advice.

What would you advise?

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