Dear MIM Readers: I Want To Deal With My Sister’s Husband Who Has Been Beating Her
I am the third born in a family of six. I am the only male child.
I love my sisters and for them I can face anybody cause they’re all I gat.
I normally avenge them whenever anyone of them are oppressed by anyone. I am known in my area for that, guys don’t misbehave with my sisters, cause they know whom their only brother is (though am the only guy of the family, I am not alone as a guy.)
My eldest sister has been married for about three years now. When the guy was engaged to my sister, me and him normally buy out time to meet, talk, we got to know each other well. He commends me on how protective I am of my sisters. He promised me he’ll never lay his hands on my sister when I told him to promise me that. I told him also that he has no right to beat her, so we both agreed on that.
Now, I have been hearing from some amebors in my sister’s area of how her husband treats her. I have been waiting for her to come to lay complaints, but she didn’t until I confronted her. She told me everything. Told me of how the guy always begs her after beating her up and would tell her not to let me know. This has happened up to four times.
I got angry but she begged, telling me that he has changed. MyMum also tried to calm me down, so I listened to them..
But now he has done it again, I was told by their neighbours and I confirmed it.
Kai! Seriously, I dey vex right now. I won go find this guy, do am something but at the same time I need your opinion on this as my Mum is not even aware of my plans for this guy, not even his wife, my sister. I am sure they might hold me back again.
So please, tell me what do you guys think?
Your sis is what my mum would call ‘a slave that loves her chains’.ln as much as l dnt subscribe 2 a 3rd party being involved in a marriage,l think teaching him a lesson or 2 will put him in order.He is a coward that cannot face his fellow man.
NB-Fighting or beating him up might affect ur relationship with ur sis.Are u ready 4 that?
Nice one
Since your sister is also trying to protect him, then I think u shouldn’t do anything. Sorry to say, your sister needs beating too for covering up a man that domestically abuses her smh. But If u can, I will say get like two to three of your friends with u and ambush him, make sure u guys beat him to a pulp so that next time he will know what he’s gonna deal with if he attempts to beat her again.
Pls dont take laws into ur hands u can get him arrested and ask them to toture him severly,he is a coward
Message.. That was how a man lost his sister cus of beating from the sister’s husband. Now she’s gonna be buried soon. Arrange wt sm area boys n Beat him up so dat nxt tym he won’t ever lay his hand on a woman again.
Funny U
Pls take ur parents to ur sis house ad confront him if he says dt he beat her u now tell him to sign an undertaken never to beat her again bt he lied u cn now take ur action on him so dt he cn learn a lesson.
Others hv said it all.
Just lyk Eka pointed out,it sister is indeed a slave who is enjoying every bit of wat she is getting bt I pray she doesn’t die in her chains.
I suggest u go over to their house nd try talking to him once more bt if he denies his act u cn then teach him a small lesson then afterwards u mk him sign an undertaken to neva lay his filthy hands on ur sister again in d name of beating.
Invite the guy to your family home and tall sense into him and tell him if he tries him again, u will lock it up. Don’t go fighting and end up in jail
I’m speechless why on earth will a man beat his wife is she yes daughter or slave teach dat idiot a lesson
Guy go nd beat him up
..pls my brother don’t way lay him at all jus go to human right office n Lodge ur complaints am sure after dealing with him u will pity him cos in d process of u beating him if any thg shd happen no 1 will support u anymore
Your sister is the one to tell you if you can continue with your plan or not but since she doesn’t want it I will advice you let it go cos at the long run your sister might even blame you and claim you wAnt to ruin her marriage. Love matter no be watin dem dey just jump put oooo.
Since you are already friends with him, meet him secretly and talk to him man to man. Remind him of his promise and how you cant stand anybody abusing your sisters. warn him that if it repeats itself then he will have you to deal with.
Nice one!!! @trudy
A round table talk between the two families will do. But ur sis is okay with d beating nah, so why disturb yourself?
Some women and their foolish way of loving hw culd she be covering up for a man dat dnt value and respect her as a woman jst arrange for d stupid idiot beat him up and warn him seriously let him knw dat there won’t be next time he’s a coward
Lol at Nuella, oga sha take things easy. But you can confront him on not keeping to his promise but don’t be voilent. He might adjust when he knows you aware of what he does to your sis.
You have a cordial relationship with your sis hubby & he has promise u he will never lay his hand on her, invite him for a talk & tell him what u have been hearing from neighbors, tell him if he try it again u will deal with him in a way he will constantly regret for the rest of his life
Juliet Aloaye, i honestly agree with you, but after the talk, if he tries it again, beat him to a pulp. What rubbish!!!
… bro nobody will blame u if organize some area boys to giving him the beating of his life *just thinking out loud*
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Pls deal with d guy seriously. We are solidly behind u
Na this kin brother I dey like o.But don’t beat yet,talk with him first.If talk no work,abeg beat the hell out of him
Hmm,i m speechless
Wahala
don’t beat him yet just threaten himhim.
Call him n talk to him one on one n let him know u r aware of how he beats ur sis blue black,tell him wen next he races his hand on her,u n ur friends will teach him a lesson he won’t forget in a hurry