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See Confession Wife Made To Husband That Ended Their Marriage

See Confession Wife Made To Husband That Ended Their Marriage

A man identified as Ogene has sent his wife, Rita, packing after she confessed she could not give birth to children because she had damaged her womb during an abortion while in secondary school.

According to PM news, the confession was made five years after their traditional marriage and wedding at an Anglican Church in Umuchu, Aguata in Anambra State.

The husband sent her away for hiding such information from him for so long after their marriage.

Findings revealed that Ogene is a trader at Head Bridge market in Onitsha and resides in Iyiowa Odekpe in Atani Local Government, a few kilometres to Onitsha urban where he plies his trade. Their relationship started when Ogene met Rita in the area and proposed to marry her. She accepted and there was formal introduction between the families. They did their traditional wedding in Rita’s village in Imo State and proceeded to Ogene’s village in Umuchu where they did their church wedding.

According to sources, throughout the period the relationship started and ended in marriage, Rita did not tell Ogene that she lost her womb due to abortion. When Rita did not get pregnant after years of their marriage, they started looking for medical solution to no avail. This cost Ogene huge sums of money.

After the failed medical solution, they decided to embark on spiritual solution which led Rita to meet a pastor to whom she revealed her predicament on why she was unable to get pregnant. The pastor advised her to embark on fasting and prayers and ask God for forgiveness.

The pastor also told her that after the prayers she should go to her husband and confess and ask for forgiveness. The pastor assured her that with the prayers, her husband would forgive her and would still take her as his wife. Based on the pastor’s assurance, after the fasting and prayers, Rita went to Ogene and narrated her sad story.

It was gathered that Rita confessed to Ogene that she got pregnant when she was in secondary school and to cover the shame, she secretly went for abortion. She narrated that during the abortion, there was complication which affected her womb and damaged it. She told him that after the abortion, she had not been able to conceive and she was afraid to tell him before they got married because she did not want to lose him. She pleaded for forgiveness and asked him to think and decide her fate in the marriage.

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The embittered husband told her that there was nothing to think concerning their marriage since she concealed such serious information from him and subjected him to wasting huge sums of money on medical treatment. He told her that there was no marriage in the first instance between them because she lied to him. He asked her to pack her things and leave his house.

Rita left dejected because the advice by the pastor was counter-productive.

Ogene subsequently went to the Anglican Church marriage counsel in Awka and sought for the dissolution of the marriage and the church granted his request.

Did he overreact?

View Comments (30)
  • We shouldn’t blame the man, he was betrayed by the woman he loved…but madam u did well, the most important thing is that your sins are forgiven..God can still changed your story

  • Well I won’t say d man overacted anybody culd do d same he felt betrayed, cheated and fooled by d woman he loved I believe wit time he will heal and maybe forgive her if nt for anything atleast for d love they once had and for telling d trutH also, bt Madam Rita u no try atall if it was only abortion is understandable for u to kip it to urself bt ur womb gotten damagedd along Wit it hmmm my dear d man deserved to knw d ttruth and decide whether to marry u or nt, u can’t punish others for ur mistake is nt fair abeg

  • Oga didn’t overreact o because we should put him in our shoes but the only thing is that God is the one that turns impossibilities to possibilities, he should have forgive her. May God so egan e dogo ijn

  • The man didn’t overreact but as for the woman she has relieved herself of the burden. May God bless her and forgive her.

  • The man over reacted period cause what if he’s the one that’s not fertile n had a baby mama outside? I bet u mamas will advice ur fellow women to pray n hand it ova to God. What about this man forgiven de wife n den de two seek Gods face?

  • He did not overreact in fact he under reacted.lt would have been different if she didn’t know about the damage.She watched n even joined him in running around for solution.5yrs of deception?Abegi

  • What happens in Las Vegas remains in Las Vegas. God doesn’t judge us by our past but present. She should have kept quiet and just keep praying. God answers prayers. It might look long before humans but it’s just some minutes before God.

    • Juliet Peejay Wisdom, the Bible said whosoever covered his sins shall not prosper. So she did what was right just that she should have done it much earlier (before the marriage). I pray God should touch the man and intervene in their marriage.

      • And what if it was the man hat hid the fact he’s not fertile n later confess I bet you will be among dose telling ur fellow woman to forgv n seek God’s face, I bet u will also tell her its not a good reason to divorce, I also bet u will tell her to forgive bah?. Women though una been beefing unaselves since 1800

  • I don’t blame d man, anybody culd react d same way he did..But so long as she didn’t remove her womb, she can still conceive…There’s notin God can not do.

  • Sad story..well its for good..I pray God corrects her womb and send another man her way.

  • I don’t blame the man at all. I feel.the man is so mad cuz she didn’t tell him.and made him waste money when she knew the problem

  • I think the woman was wrong for not telling the husband before now.however, it takes God for the husband to forgive and forget.So let the wife takes courage in God what will be will be.

  • Maybe the outcome would have been different if the woman hadn’t deceived the man into wasting so much money in the first place.

  • I don’t think he overeacted but then he can still forgive her and believe God. God is still in the business of miracles.

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