“No pregnancy or tricks will make another human love you” – Sonia Ogbonna

IK Ogbonna’s wife, Sonia gives relationship advice to her female fans via her social media page. The beautiful mother of one places emphasis settling down only into a relationship with genuine love.

See what she wrote…

There is nothing as amazing as having a child that is half you half a human being you love and that loves you back. What I have learnt as somebody who recently started a family is that it’s not all the time easy to raise a family and build a life with another person.

It takes so much patience,compromises,understanding,respect ,tolerance and ability of putting yourself in other person’s shoes. And (ironically) our nature as human beings is stubbornly egocentric,we always (subconsciously) have a belief that our points of view and our ways are the only “right” ways and the rest is “wrong”. The gospel truth is my brothers and sisters-there is no right or wrong. There are just different angles of view.
So the only way you can build a healthy relationship that will grant you a spiritual,emotional and mental peace is not to settle for anything else than genuine ,mutual love with a person you share your life with. During the time,Love will overcome and tame that silly egocentric part of us ,experience will bring us wisdom and we will know better.

And that’s the only way for you to be happy while coexisting in a Union with another human.
And IT must be mutual.

So my loving IG fam,I wish you to never settle for a life without love.
Note: You can’t beg or blackmail people to love you. You can’t force it. No pregnancy or tricks will make another human love you if he/she doesn’t settle for your soul.
Love is free,love is constant change and progress. Love is available. Love doesn’t know color/race /ethnicity or religion. Love bonds. Love is kind and caring. Love is a faith . Love is an absolute purpose. And Love is what I wish y’all from the bottom of my heart in 2016 and forever. Because without it,nothing else makes sense ❤️