I started dating this guy when I was 19, now I’m 24. He loved me and told me he would do anything for me.
All that was left was just a formal introduction of both families who already knew us together and consented to the relationship. We had an issue, broke up for about two years and eventually came back together after a year.
Then I got infatuated with another guy. He had more money than my first boyfriend. So when my boyfriend and I got back together and wanted us to settle down, I told him that I cannot cope with his income. This is majorly due to my background. I didn’t want to experience what my mum experienced.
To cut the long story short, we broke up due to my inability to accept I was wrong. This left him deeply hurt. Now, I want us to reconcile but he’s not just willing to let go like that and I have realised that I can’t i get myself to love another, no matter how richer they are. With tears in my eyes, I have begged him but he said though he still loves me, love isn’t just enough.
I need sincere advice on what to do. Picture me as one of your daughters who needs help.
I don’t want to lose him, cause he’s everything I want in a man and his family are just the best any girl could wish for as in-laws. They love me so much and I feel at home with them. Please, feel free to chastise me if you deem it necessary.