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Dear MIMsters: My Family Wants Me to Marry This Man Despite this Major Problem

Dear MIMsters: My Family Wants Me to Marry This Man Despite this Major Problem

I need your sincere advice on how to handle this major problem.

My fiance and I have been dating for the past two years. Initially, he told me that he wanted a no-sex relationship and I accepted. But one time during my service year, last year precisely, I visited him and made sure we had sex.

In the process, I found out that he can’t perform as well as man should. I was not happy about my discovery, so I suggested we both go to the hospital. We went to the hospital and conducted all the tests we were told to do and the results turned out OK.

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3 days after I want to Oyo where I was servicing, he collected the list from my family for the traditional wedding. Now, that I  am back from service, he still can’t perform his duty as a man.

When I told his mum, she was not happy and said she will look into it. Obviously, I am also not happy and any thing he does now pisses me off. I find myself being harsh to him even when I try not to. My parents are saying that I should go ahead to marry him if at least he can get me pregnant.

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Should I only be worried about pregnancy? What about satisfaction and enjoying my marriage. Is my family right? Should I marry him or not?

View Comments (3)
  • Your family care more about you been a mrs than a happy mrs. Please if you know you can’t cope, then do not go ahead with the wedding.

  • I love the fact that you opened up about this cos a lot of ladies in our society does not discuss sex. If you feel this guy cannot make you con-tempted in that department, kindly walk.

  • I think the ball is in your court, you know the best… If you can fight it out before you get married by prayer, there is nothing God can not do

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