Not Every Woman Who Has Kids Is A Mother -Zizi Cardow Calls Out A Parent Who Doesn’t Know What Being A Mom Is

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Renowned Nigerian fashion designer, Zizi Cardow has opened fire on women who allow society to pressure them into getting married and bearing children who they are not fit to do right by.

According to the mom-of-1 who took to her Facebook page to share a video on her opinion on marriage and children, her concern on the issue stemmed from the fact that a grown woman supposedly married to a man, came on social media seeking for counsel because her husband admitted to having sexual feelings for her daughter from a previous relationship, and the said man had the guts to ask her to either take her daughter out of their home or he would have no choice than to sleep with the girl.

Zizi opines that it’s not every woman who has a child that deserves the honour of being called a mother, saying it’s not compulsory for every woman to get married or to have kids.

Below is a snippet from the video Zizi Cardow posted:

“When it comes to marriages and what a man or woman do, I don’t really bother because it is their decision and they are adults and you must take the consequences that come out of it but when you involve your kids in it is where it gets me because these kids did not ask to be born neither did they ask for you to make some stupid decisions in your life. I am sick and tired of all these post people put up of somebody gets beaten up, gets stabbed. You get beaten up, you get killed because you want to. Don’t involve your kids in it. When you make stupid decisions that you want to get married because the whole nation is crazy about getting married, don’t get your kids involved in it…”

She said further:

“Please women, if you are not ready for children, do not have them. I don’t know why the society is so pressured about people getting married and having children when half of the people that have children are not supposed to. Honestly, not every woman is supposed to have children and not everyone is supposed to be married. Not every woman who has kids is supposed to be called a mother”.

Watch the video below:

Do you agree with Zizi?