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Bisola Aiyeola’s Story About Her Tough Pregnancy At 23, Raising Her Baby Alone In Abject Poverty And Her Many Struggles Will Leave You Emotional

Bisola Aiyeola’s Story About Her Tough Pregnancy At 23, Raising Her Baby Alone In Abject Poverty And Her Many Struggles Will Leave You Emotional

Former Big Brother Naija Housemate, Bisola Aiyeola has recalled her struggles in raising her daughter alone right from the womb and how her wedding didn’t hold after the marriage proposal.

In an interview with Taymesan for his Tea With Tay podcast, the talented actress said she wants to have babies now, but she’s lowkey dreading it due to her tough pregnancy at age 23.

According to Bisola, she went through hell nursing her baby alone without financial assistance from anyone. She said it got to the extent of feeding her baby with soaked Garri adding that she used her mom’s old scarves, head tie, blouse and wrappers as diapers.

The reality star went on to reveal that her baby daddy was excited with the news of her pregnancy, which made him propose to her. Still, their wedding never happened due to some issues in their relationship.

She narrated:

“I had Leyla when I was 23. It wasn’t the best of times. You know they tell you when a young girl get belle, e dey easy, na lie! It’s a bloody lie. Now I want to have a kid but I’m lowkey dreading it because her pregnancy was a tough one. I used to throw up a minimum of 4 times every single day until about 6/7 months.

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It was so bad that if I had any food – spittle, then bile, then blood would come out. I was the skinniest I have ever been in my life until the last trimester when I started retaining fluid. Her labor was tough, it was three days. I fell into labor Wednesday and had her on Friday at night.

At the time I got pregnant and I found out and I told Leyla’s dad, his response was such a huge relief. So the day I told him, he was like “Ah great, we’re having a baby.” I didn’t expect that from him. He used to be such a sweet boyfriend, very sweet.

I don’t know what went wrong, what happened before the shift came. But he used to be so sweet. And with that response from him, I felt like yeah we were going to take on the world. Then he proposed. We never got married.

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He proposed but the wedding never happened and then we started having our issues upon issues. After a while I think he got really insecure and it’s not like I was even ballin’ at the time. Life wasn’t good for me. He wasn’t very present and that was one of the things we used to fight about. We called off the engagement when my daughter was two.

There was a time I was feeding my daughter garri. I was feeding my baby garri. Like we will allow the garri soak. We didn’t have diapers, we would have to use my momsy’s old scarves, her gele, buba and iro, use am do napkin.

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Then cut polythene bag into X shape and tie so she can use and sleep. This was 2009/2010. She was still a baby not even talking yet.

We will wait for the garri to swell, then get like N10 jago, shake it, mix it inside. Feed her. You will not know that this child it’s garri we’re feeding her. I’m telling you. God really hid my shame with my daughter.”

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