Famous Nollywood actress, Tonto Dikeh has written a note to women on the need to be careful in choosing their child’s father.
The divorced mother of one warned the public to learn from her mistakes, noting that her mission is to show them how to survive a broken man and not to hate men.
She stated that if she can save one woman today, then she has lived a fulfilled life. For her, her mission has been accomplished.
The actress, in a post shared on her Instagram page on Tuesday, said,
“Dear women, choose the father of your child carefully. Don’t love me. Learn from me. I would live a fulfilled life forever if I could save one woman today.
The mission is not to hate a man, but it’s on how to survive a broken man. There are always signs. Just look well.
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This is coming days after the actress advised single mothers not to stop telling their stories as their children would question why they never fought for themselves or told their truth.
However, if they have an ex, who is a good father, she admonished women to appreciate and respect them and forget the hurt.
According to her, they should forget the personal hurt and give the man his flowers. She added that they should pray for such men always because they don’t know what they have. In her final words to them, she reminded them that a good dad doesn’t have to be a good husband.
As for her, Tonto, she wants her truth to be heard as much times as she feels like and doesn’t need validation.
“Dear women, don’t stop telling your story.
Some day your children will ask why you never fought for you and their truth and them. Above all of you have a ex spouse who is a good father, please respect him.
Forget and put aside your personality hurt and give him his flower, IF HE IS A GOOD DAD. PRAY FOR HIM ALWAYS BECAUSE YOU DON’T KNOW WHAT YOU HAVE.
A Good dad doesn’t have to be a good husband, remember that…
F&CK SOCIETY DO YOU.
I DON’T NEED VALIDATION, I WANT MY TRUTH HEARD AS MUCH TIMES AS I FEEL LIKE.”
The actress and her ex-husband, Olakunle Churchill have been on social media recently dragging each other over their son, King Andre.
Tonto, had a few days ago, slammed Churchill for posting their son on his birthday to give the impression he is trying to be in the child’s life.
Tonto further disclosed that Churchill is just a sperm donor, and she regrets choosing him as one for her son.
She went on to slam Churchill after he appealed to her to move on. In series of posts on her Instagram page which was backed up with receipts, the politician stated that Churchill’s worst mistake was thinking she hasn’t moved on.
She noted how she only came out to make a point that he is a liar and a deadbeat father who never pays fees nod child support.
Bringing Davido into it, she told Churchill to learn from the singer since he is a fan of Davido.
The mother of one further dragged Churchill’s ex, Bimbo Coker, into the drama, claiming he never divorced her after almost eleven years of separation.
The dramatic queen advised Churchill to take care of his daughter from his first marriage as she is well off without him. She shared:
“WHEN WILL YOU TELL THE WORLD THAT @justcallmebims IS NOT YOUR ex wife BUT YOUR WIFE TILL DATE….
“You married her and suddenly ran away one day and since 11/10 years she has never seen you and you have refused to grant her a DIVORCE????
“I have not spoke, texted, cared to source your no. In 7years so where did we have a conversation on BURNING GIFTS….
“IF YOUR OWN MOTHER CAN DENY YOU WHEN YOUR GHANA LANDLORD CALLED FOR THEIR MONEY, you can deny anything but a VIDEO MADE 7YEARS AGO CANT LIE WITH FULL AUTHENTIC RECEIPTS..”