Married Woman Lists Things She Does To Make Her Marriage Work That Some Women Do Not Agree With
A video of a woman listing all the things she does for her husband to make their marriage work, has made the rounds on social media.
Her disclosure has sparked mixed reactions as some women do not agree with her theory.
According to the lady, she is submissive to her husband and that she doesn’t look at him as though they are equals. In her words:
“He is my head, my leader and I respect and treats him as such, This man treats me like a Princess.”
She also mentioned that she washes his clothes, clean up after him, and asks him for permission before making any type of plans. She continued:
“Lets say a group of my girls want to go out to a place we have never been before, how can I just go?
I have to ask my husband if he is okay with me going before I make any types of plans and that is out of respect because if he is not okay with me going or not sure about the location, then I am not going to go.
I also watch his clothes, clean up after him, cook for him, serve him his place and take it back when he is done.
He is the king and should be treated as such.”
Watch the video Here;
Below are reactions from Nigerians…
@Mirabel:
Mumu, this is what 80% of Nigerian wives does for the family and more ask your mama and sisters. This woman won’t cover up for her husband if he lost his job unlike Naija women that cover up in front of his family to cover his shame. You must get a job of you’re abroad you can’t be a lazy bum even if na lawma work. Bills got to be paid.
Naija women don’t get the love and pamper in return. Many of them don’t get the princess treatment this lady get. Once a Naija man makes money, he wants more side chic. He tells the wife to move out if she’s not comfortable with it and he will chant “don’t I look after you and the kids”. They Plummer their wives if she complains about anything instead of discussing like civilized men.
Naija wives take insults from his family and has to keep quiet about it. Many married women haven’t gone to a restaurant for dinner with their husband alone since they got married. But these men create time for side chicks. Spend time in beer parlours, clubs, parties and boys hangout like say women don’t get bored too.
I’m sure her princess treatment includes getaways, SPA treatment, and buying her gifts. Plus she knows how much he earns and how he spends it because bills at the door don’t lie. Naija man get budget for side chicks and frivolities. Some of the married women that get this treatment in Nigeria, trust me their husbands side chicks are getting the same as the wife or even better vacation package.
This woman won’t take half of the rubbish Naija men dish out. From the comment section we know what Naija men are capable of, women are slaves and should not be pampered like a princess. Just read Twitter stories coming from Naija men and the comment. Most are sick individuals. Few Naija men are honourable men that keep their home and treat their wives like queen. The rest are trash, violent, narcissistic and misogynist.
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@Andrew Tate:
Keep it up, young woman full of wisdom. Your marriage will last long. Exactly how every man should be treated. Unlike the fake feminists and 40 something year old Tigers who refuse to submit to a man claiming equality. They will all die lonely and heart broken.
@Anonymous:
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Submission to a man might backfire, pray he doesn’t take advantage of it. Talking from experience
@Princess:
This is all well and good if the man is respectful of what you do and also acknowledges and incorporates your needs in his decision making. Took me a long time to realize that I was being a fool.
He simply did not acknowledge my needs or that I wanted to do my own things too not just his. All this her talk flew off the radar my dear…now I am focused on my own needs.
@Titi:
You are still a small girl and new in marriage. You will eventually learn how to use your tongue to count your teeth.
@Ada:
Don’t mind her. I used to be like her till after 15 years my husband showed me original hot pepper. Had a child with one roadside girl. I beg all u newly weds shut up and open ur mouth in about 12 years!!