Dear MIMsters: I’ve been told to leave my home because of a strange girl

I’m a mother of 3 boys who got married 6 years ago. Hubby and I dated for almost 10 years before marriage. It was a smooth marriage until in December 2015 when I noticed a strange girl’s number.

He’s not yet smart in those ways or let me call him a learner who trying to blend into the association of cheating married men. I was so angry I confronted him immediately. We argued, he apologized and even called her to end whatever was going on. Everything died down and we moved on. Or so I thought only for me to find out last night that my dear hubby and the said girl a.k.a bird are still keeping in touch.

Out of anger, I disabled his mobile phone. I know it’s wrong to go through our spouse’s phone but sometimes, one needs to especially when they are always passworded.

He asked me to pack out of his house. Can you imagine? Just for a girl. I refused and we have not been on speaking terms since.

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I need your advice on how to handle this issue cause I know this other woman and her family very well. I am very pissed and angry. I just don’t want to disgrace myself or have a high blood pressure over this matter. The worst is that my husband is swearing with God and everything that they don’t have anything serious together (she’s a low class hoe). Why would a girl text him at 11pm to say  “you have hurt me, hope you know” ????. I want to know what to do.