Dear MIMsters: He’s Already Married But He Wants One Thing From Me
He’s already married but he only wants one thing from me.
I am 25 years ol and a student and by the Grace of God, I will be graduating next year.
I have been in a relationship with this man who loves me and always tries to help me in the little way that he can. He is nice and caring as well.
However, the problem is that he is married but without a child.
He never told me he was married when we newly met. I got to know after I started reciprocating the love he showed me, then he opened up to me about his marital status.
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I asked him about his wife and he told that he has been married for 7 years and his wife has been unable to have a baby. He said that his wife has issues affecting her ability to reproduce. He told me that he needs to marry another wife who can bare him a child.
I told him that I can’t, rather, he should trust God and pray with his wife for with God all things are possible. I also told him that I couldn’t hurt another woman like that for my own gain. He told me that it is not my business and to leave him to discuss with his wife that he wants to bring in another wife.
This man has helped me so much, so I’m finding it hard to him that I don’t want to do this. I need my own man and not someone else’s. I have tried to tell him that I can’t but he is still begging me, saying that he needs a child of his own. Please help me with some words of advice.
Hmmmmmm why do I have a feeling that man is lying. Please do not even consider his offer.
What’s the guarantee that you’re going to have this child for him? Please, you’re still very fresh, don’t allow anyone spoil your future.
Don’t marry out of pity and regret later. When men need something they dot over u like a baby, but once they get it the story change. Tell him to put his faith in the lord. Get ur own fresh man and start ur life with him.