My husband has asked me to leave my job of over 12 years but he is not willing to support the business idea I have proposed, instead he is just trying to frustrate me to death.
We met through this job he is asking me to leave in 2008. I had gone to his office to market my company’s products to one of his colleagues who unfortunately, was not around and who had asked him to engage me in order to know if I was worth doing business with.
Not only was I able to convince him to advise his friend to buy the land, he also purchased 2 plots in the promo of that year.
One thing led to another, and 2 years later, we were married.
We had our first child- a girl almost immediately because I was about 5 months pregnant already before we got married and another child- a boy; 2 years later.
My husband will always accuse me of flirting with men so that I could sell lands to them. I get good commission from my job and to the best of my ability, I take good care of my children. My husband is just being a pain in the neck.
He is accusing me of infidelity when he is the unfaithful one here. I have evidences of his affair with 2 of his exes and he is even flirting with a girl on our street but I chose to pretend that I do not know about it, yet, he will not let me have peace. Always monitoring me.
Sometimes, he would call me up to 7 times before the end of work. Every morning, he requests for my itinerary for the day and through that, he monitors me. If he ever calls and I am not where I stated in my itinerary, I would be in trouble when we get home in the evening. He has never laid a finger on me but he would deny me of everything from sex, to money, eating at home, talking to me, helping with the kids etc.
When he started his usual trouble-making about my job last night, I told him I would resign but that he would have to give me the money I need to start my boutique business.
Can you imagine what he said to me? He said boutique business is for women who want to go fully into prostitution. Now, he has asked me to resign at the end of this month, and become a full time housewife saying, he has enough to cater for our needs.
I am the only child of my late parents and I do not have anywhere to go. When we got married, he ensured that I cut ties with relatives and friends.
If I resign from my job, he will have more means of dealing with me but If i don’t, the trouble will be unbearable.
I am just fed up!