Dear MIMsters: Should I Fight for This Relationship or Walk Away?

I’m a 21 years old female and I’m 5 months pregnant, while my boyfriend is 24. I don’t know if I should fight for this relationship or walk away?

We’ve been in a relationship for quite some time and I thought I was the only one till I found out that he has another girlfriend back home. Guess what? She’s also pregnant.

Since he went home, he’s been telling me that he’s been receiving anonymous SMSes telling him that the baby I am carrying is not his.

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Whoever has been sending him those messages really knows me. I’m suspecting that it could be his girlfriend back home or he’s just making that up. I tried to call him one day and someone picked up his phone. She told my boyfriend that I insulted her which is a lie and lucky I recorded the call and he doesn’t know.

It has been months now since we saw each other. He doesn’t want to talk to me because he’s accusing me of  cheating on him and I’m not. How can I cheat while being pregnant?

I would like to know if I should fight for this relationship or leave him? Next year, I have to go to school but I don’t think I’ll be able to because of the child. He said that he wants his child but I don’t know if I should give him this child or not?

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Should I just leave him alone and raise the child alone? I need your guided advice.

 

5 Discussions on
“Dear MIMsters: Should I Fight for This Relationship or Walk Away?”
  • fight to what end? He is not matured for responsibilities not bcos of his age but bcos of his actions. You are too young to be fighting a lost cause. Where are your parents? Go home and seek help from them, u will need it.

  • What’s there to fight for? A silly 24 year old block head? Plus why do you want to give him your baby? Did he not say it’s not his? Better move on and stay away from that idiot of a guy.

  • Don’t fight , if he wants you he will come back to you. Your destiny is not tied to him. Your future is bright with or without him. concentrate on finishing school and raising that child.

  • I don’t believe in fighting for a relationship, that’s my own oh. There’s actually no reason to do so.

  • Pls don’t make the mistake of ur life by givinf him dat child ders nothing to fight for. move on wt life. I repeat don’t ever in ur life giv him d child.no matter how tough things might. be

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