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Dear Mimsters: My Fiance Abandoned Me on Hospital Bed, See What God Did

Please I have a story to share and it is bitter sweet, with a lot of lessons. I want Misters to learn from my experience. I had a fiance and we planned to get married in December 2013 but before

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Dear MIMsters: Was I Wrong to Confront My Husband Over This?

I am married with two children. Recently, I had to confront my husband over an issue troubling me. Was I wrong? Due to the nature of hubby’s job (he works in a telecommunication company) hubby lives in the western part

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Dear MIMsters: I Vowed to Break the Trend of Having Kids By Different Fathers in My Family but My Medical Condition is Threatening it

I will be 31 by October, I am single and I have never been pregnant and I just found out that I have medical condition. I hardly engaged in unprotected sex because I was always in distant relationships and kept to

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Dear MIMsters: My husband does not cheat nor beat me. I’m lucky right? But wait till I tell you my story.

I am passing out slowly, so in need of a heartfelt counsel. My husband does not cheat nor beat me and he takes care of our two children. I guess you all will say I’m lucky right? But wait till

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Dear MIM: My Husband Kicked Me Out Of The House, But Look At My Testimony Today

I am a victim of emotional blackmail, torture and heartache. Today, I am standing strong, not by my strength but by God’s grace and I wish to share my testimony today with as many women who are facing the same

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Dear MIMsters: Should I Give Up My Kids To My Husband And Move On?

Minsters, before you judge me, please read my story. I would like to move on from this marriage. I graduated from the University in 2009, served between 2010 and 2011, then started as road safety official in March 2012. Before

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Dear MIMsters: I Love My Daughter But I Don’t Want Her Mother. Is This A Crime?

I want your unbiased candid advice on this matter. Is it a crime for me to love my daughter and not her mother? While we were at the University 8 years ago, I got my girlfriend pregnant and she had

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Dear MIM Readers: I Regret My Marriage. What Would You Do If You Were In My Shoes

I got married 2 years ago in my final year in school to a well of educated business man but now I regret it. The man I knew while we were dating isn’t the same man now. He has a

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Dear MIMster: I Told My Husband Off For Doing This…Do You Think I Overreacted?

I’ve been married for 2 years. My husband has been everything I want but his attitude towards his female friends are beginning to annoy me. He said he’s over his exes but still calls them and sends them messages on their

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Dear MIM: My MIL Has Succeeded In Destroying My Home

Hello MIM! As I type this message, I am so devastated and shattered. I am the same person who posted some time in November about been TTC for 3 years. My MIL advised my husband to marry a new wife

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Hubby’s Huge Peen Always Gets Me Bruised & He Wants It Every Day

My post is a bit of a TMI but I’m happy it’s anonymous…lol. I am married to a man with a very huge peen. It’s 9″ long and about 6.5″ thick when fully erected. I know because we were asked

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Dear MIM: “I am your husband’s mistress,” My Husband’s Secretary Confessed To Me

I am happily married with two children. I live abroad with my children while my husband shuffles between home and abroad because he has a good bussines running back home. My husband’s secretary disclosed a secret to me because I

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My Neighbour’s Children Are Very Unhappy But I Can’t Tell Their Mum

My neighbour’s children aged 6 and 9 usually come to my flat after school to play with my baby. They are very lovely kids, unfortunately, they prefer spending time with me more than with their parents. Sometime ago, the older

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DEAR MIM: How Can I Bring Myself to Trust My Husband Again After This?

I’ve been in shock for days now. Just finding it hard to believe and accept the fact that all men must cheat. Please MIM people, why do men really cheat? Is it all about trend, swag or what? I dated

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DEAR MIM: Since the Father of My Son Can’t Pay the Bills at 36, I Have Decided To This…

I will be 32 by June this year and in a relationship I don’t know whether to move on with or quit. I already have a son for this guy although it wasn’t planned. I discovered I was pregnant shortly

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DEAR MIM: Should I Marry This Man Who Can’t Get It Up?

I’m a single lady in my late twenties. I met this guy close to 6 years ago and played hard to get for 2 years but he remained consistent, so, I finally gave in. Initially, I was worried because he’s

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DEAR MIM: Should I Marry My Baby’s Father Considering All These?

I’m a single 26 weeks pregnant mum. My baby’s father and I would have been married before now but things didn’t work out as planned. When I became pregnant, he told me to terminate the pregnancy because he doesn’t have a decent job yet but I refused.

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Dear MIM: How My Mum Used Me As An ATM Without A Caring About My Source Of Income

It’s so unfair how people are quick in judging others, especially women. I read a post concerning the girl whose family wants her to take up their responsibility without caring about her income source, and so would like to share

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Dear MIM: How Do I Convince My Friend That I Regret My Actions & No Longer Want Her Hubby

I had a crush on my friend’s hubby and sent him a message expressing my feelings to him, and so on. Unfortunately, her husband spilled the beans. I know I’m bad and cry my heart out every day because of

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Dear MIM: Should I Tell My Mum What My Uncle Did To Me?

My dad died a few years ago and since then it’s been just me and mum. Now, my mum has this brother who she asked to help me with some money to return back to school. I am in my

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Dear MIM Readers: My Husband’s Unhygienic Habits Are Driving Me Nuts! How Can I Make Him Change?

Please how do you deal with a dirty husband? My husband is the best husband ever but he’s dirty; sometimes I feel that’s the price I have to pay for having a loving and caring husband. My hubby can wear one boxer for

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Dear MIM Readers: Help! We Brought My Mother-in-law to Help With the Baby in the US, Now She’s A Thorn in the Flesh

I’m a first time mum. I had my precious baby boy with an emergency C section almost 2 months ago. Ever since I gave birth, I have not rested well because of baby demands, sleepless nights and all. My hubby has been very supportive

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Dear MIM Readers: Is my husband treating me this way because I am not educated enough?

I want to leave my husband because this man has not been good to me. We have been married for 7 years. We got married when we had nothing. Now that he has gone into politics and is doing very well, he

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DEAR MIM READERS: My Dad Says I Either Abort My Pregnancy or Get Kicked Out

6 years ago, precisely, towards the start of WASSCE, I met Dare and we became very good friends. He had recently joined the school for the SSSCE exam after his dad, a military officer, was transferred from the North to

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Dear MIM Readers: My Wife Is A Lesbian

We live in the US where they have gay rights. My wife went to a boarding school back home in Nigeria. It was there she was groomed into a lesbian. Even though she went on to have sexual relations with

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